I think we either have the same mother, or they are related. My mother is ALWAYS sick with a “touch” of pneumonia, or bronchitis, or something. She smokes with her oxygen hooked up. She has been in hospital 3 times this year and is always “ready to go”. It makes me crazy! I gave up our relationship years ago, and only hear about her when she is at death’s door, for the 30th time. I feel you girl. ❤