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3 Responses to Help You Win at Everything!

(Yes, EVERYTHING!)

Kristina H
7 min readSep 10, 2018
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Well, here we are starting another week. (Mondays, amiright?)

I have anxiety. Let’s get that out in the open right now. Do I “suffer” from anxiety? I wouldn’t say I do, however, it’s always there, lurking around in the shadows of my brain waiting to smack me around in tough situations. The trick is to know it’s there, but to do something about it.

Anxiety has taught me, more than anything, how not to react to situations. Being reactive can cause more issues than you are capable of handling. It may cause you to have panic attacks, or leave a situation that makes you feel uncomfortable, or even avoid commitments or events in case either of the aforementioned reactions occurs.

So, in order to be proactive, rather than reactive, I have learned 3 responses that have helped me to not only keep anxiety in check, but to help anyone, anywhere, in ALL situations.

Don’t believe me? Just try them out:

The first step is to take every situation that stresses you out, or makes you feel uncomfortable, and instead of reacting immediately, just STOP. Stop in the middle of the chaos around you and THINK — or in more current terms, PROCESS. Even if you need to take a deep breath, count to 3 or 10, or even 100. Do NOT let it affect…

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Kristina H
Kristina H

Written by Kristina H

Writer of relationships / early childhood and mental health . Poetry and fiction dabbler

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